You Took Your Son Where?!

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Now, I have your attention I will happily answer that question. I took my son to a men’s Bible study. Every monday night (well most) for the last four or so years my wife knew where I would be. I was going to be with a group of guys who invest into me and I into them. There is a solidarity which takes place with this group of men I have never experienced anywhere else.

Over the last several months my youngest son Richard has been wanting to go with me to these meetings. At first I was rather hesitant, I mean come on he’s only six. Then I realized he’s only six and he still wants to spend time with his dad. He wants to do things like his dad does them. I am starting to appreciate that fact. There is going to come a time when he may not want to hang out with me as much and I will need to prepare myself for it.

When he first started wanting to go he was around four and he was just way too young. He has ADHD and has a hard time not getting into things. As he has gotten older he has gotten a bit better and I allow him to bring his Kindle Fire to occupy him while we have our study. Sure I would love to go back to when it was just me getting away from the family and having some alone time. But, I would be missing out on so much. This young man loves me dearly and wants to be around me.

He is seeing what male bonding can and should look like. He is getting a picture of brotherhood inside of Christ. As we get together around food and celebrate the Word of God. I will one day have the time to myself again but I will never be able to regain time spent with my son as a chid. By me taking him it is teaching me how to be less selfish and more of a role model.

While I long to take my oldest son, he has not desire to go and I am not going to force it upon him. I will take the opportunities the Lord is placing before me, to grow and nurture my little one the best I can.

Questions: What are somethings you can be doing with your child(ren) you have been avoiding? Is there a special way you spend time with your little ones?

4 Comments

  1. Jayna Coppedge

    I wish all men had a men’s Bible group. Doubtless the example these men are setting and the seeds being planted will lead to a wondrous harvest.

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    1. pmhorne

      I wish that there were more groups that encouraged boys to come along. This is a special group. I love these men with a godly brotherly love and how they take him in and speak to him like a man. I cannot wait to see the benefits of the seeds that are being planted. 😀 Thanks for your response. Did you ever see the comment I left on your blog? I wasn’t told if you responded or not. Anyway thanks for your support.

      Paul

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  2. shadesofebony82

    Great way to spend time with your son!

    Reply
    1. pmhorne

      Thanks! I am trying to do the best I can.

      Reply

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